The Guides 2020: The Best Gifts for Her
My husband once said that the best part of being married to a blogger was never having to wonder what to grab for holiday gifts! That’s right, every year I put together a Guide for Her which is really just my own personal wishlist and faves wrapped up in a pretty bow. 

The Guides 2020: The Best Gifts for Her
The Her Guide is by far the most forwarded email and blog post ever year because I’ve done the hard part. This list includes a round of amazingly thoughtful, luxe and spoil-worthy items that I would be proud to gift and thrilled to receive. Shop it for your sister, bestie, mom, wife, girlfriend or yourself! 

This year’s Guides include a new feature:
Reader Faves!

The Gift Guide for Her includes four best sellers from Guides past or from Olive and Tate over the past year. Each Reader Fave is marked with a star and adding one to your cart is a sure-fire way to ensure you’ve selected the perfect gift.
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The Guides 2020: The Best Gifts for Her
1. Acrylic Monogrammed Pitcher | 2. Bamboo Bangle | 3. Facial Cleansing Brush* | 4. Pajama Set* | 5. Pura Smart Scent| 6. Wine Preserver | 7. Handwritten Hidden Message Leather Clutch | 8. Celebration Coordinates Custom Wine Box | 9. Personalized Frame with Message | 10. Personalized Baking Set | 11. Personalized Glasses | 12. Monogrammed Power Bank | 13. Diamond Necklace | 14. Charging Leather Monogrammed Tray | 15. Personalized Key Chain | 16. Gold and Topaz Mini Hoop Earrings | 17. Barefoot Dreams Robe* | 18. Leather Convertible Belt Bag | 19. Champagne Preserver | 20. Acrylic Wine Glasses *
1. Acrylic Monogrammed Pitcher
Perfect for mixing a batch of sangria, the monogrammed pitcher can also be apart of a set that includes options like a monogrammed tray, stemless wine glasses and champagne flutes. 
2. Gold Bamboo Bangle
Classic but with a fun twist, I love this take on a gold bangle. Also available in a pair of hoop earrings! 
3. Facial Cleansing Brush*
The ultimate in at home skin care, the Foreo has a cult following. I personally have a similar version and love the way it leaves my skin. This brush has been a best seller on Olive and Tate this year!
4. Pajama Set*
The softest pajamas ever made! This pair of pajamas has been a Guides best seller for at least 3 years in a row, and for good reason! I could live in them – and they wash and wear so well.
5. Pura
Pura launched gift sets just in time for the holidays! I think it’s Girl Code to love the smell of Capri Blue (the scent of an Anthropolgie store), so if you’re ordering for someone else, start there! 
6. Electric Wine Preserver
Enjoy as much or as little wine as you’d like without sacrificing the whole bottle. This wine preserver vacuum-preserves wine with the touch of a button so you can save opened bottles for another day.
7. Handwritten Hidden Message Leather Clutch
Ok, lovers and partners who want to slam dunk the holidays, this one is for you! This custom made envelope clutch includes a handwritten letter on the inside silk lining. From something simple like an “I love you” to your wedding vows or handwritten lyrics to a special song, this clutch is truly something special. Available in 4 colors of premium leather, I love the champagne and cognac brown.
8. Celebration Coordinates Custom Wine Box
I love this idea! Personalized the wooden box with coordinates of a special place, a date, names or a special phrase and fill it with a significant wine bottle. Here’s what I would love: a wine box with the coordinates of our wedding location and a bottle from the local vineyard. Or maybe the date of an anniversary and a bottle of fun champagne. Or what a message that says “Christmas Eve Fuel” and each year you pick out a bottle to drink on Christmas Eve while you wait for the kids to fall asleep! 
9. Personalized Frame With Message Detail
Here’s why I think this little frame set is so special: as a mom, I would love to see the photos my husband chose of me and our family. Wouldn’t it be special to show someone how you really see them? His favorite pictures of us, all in one spot, with a sweet personalization? That’s the real deal, my friends. This would also be a sweet sister gift or so fun for your mom. 
10. Personalized Baking Set
This little baking tin set can be personalized with a name or message and is perfect for a girl who loves her time in the kitchen! 
The Guides 2020: The Best Gifts for Her

11. Personalized Glasses
This sweet little glasses come in a rainbow of colors, have a delicate gold floral detail and can be personalized with a name in script. 
12. Monogrammed Power Bank
Um, someone please put this in my stocking! I am always on low battery and love the look of this monogrammed portable charging bank. 
13. Diamond Necklace
This Dana Rebecca Designs diamond necklace was the very first item to make the 2020 Guides after I spotted it on a sweet friend. I begged her for details and was so pleased with the price point. I cannot describe how delicate it is on – the necklace design is incredibly petite and perfect for daily wear. Available in yellow gold and white gold, it truly is a special piece (and number one on my list!).
14. Charging Leather Monogram Tray
One of my worst habits is the state of array I allow my bedside table to live in. It is always a cluttered mess, no matter what. Maybe this little monogrammed leather charging tray could contain the chaos?! I also love it for a drop zone in an entry or office space!
15. Personalized Key Chain
Another adorable stocking stuffer idea (or gift for girlfriends, teachers, friends!), this personalized gold mirror keychain includes on large, main engraved disc and two additional charm disks that can also be engraved. 
16. Gold and Topaz Small Hoop Earrings
I was so excited when I found these gorgeous gold hoop earrings. The topaz detail is so unique! I think these are perfect earrings for masking, every day life thanks to their size. Not too large to snag on things, but with enough detail to be classic and eye catching. They are also available in shades of aquamarine, sapphire and dark pink topaz. I happen to think they look much more expensive than they are!
17. Barefoot Dreams Robe*
There is no safer bet than a super luxe, cozy, high end, Barefoot Dreams robe. Just trust me on this one (and also, a Guides 2019 best seller). 
18. Leather Convertible Belt Bag
Another item plucked directly from my list to Santa, this belt bag is made of high quality leather and can be converted and worn many different ways. From a belt bag to a crossbody to clutch, investing in this piece means endless ways to wear.
19. Champagne Sealer
A Le Creuset Champagne sealer to save those bottles of prosecco, champagne and wine! This is an adorable gift for friends!
20. Acrylic Wine Glasses*
I personally own this set and use them regularly (daily, fine.) They are a great size, cannot be broken, can be machine washed and truly look like glass wear when on the table. 
Want more gift ideas for her?
Check out the 2019 Gift Guide for her
and the 2018 Gift Guide for her!